You do need to be careful though because the Chinese have two different concepts of love, "Romantic" love which is the same as the western concept of love in an adult heterosexual relationship. But then there is "real" love which excludes any romantic attraction but is based on a desire to ... Full Comment>>

I married a chinese woman in Tianjin. Two years after arriving in Australia she became eligible for permanent residence. At that point she turned into a bitch. She told me she had married me for real love and not romantic love. So far it has cost me over $20,000 in legal fees and I'm still not sure that I'll retain ... Full Comment>>